For Sue..

My favourite Aunt died this morning. I loved her dearly and thankfully she was medicated with morphine and died peacefully.  She’d been suffering from motor neurone disease for some time and was paralysed from the neck down, unable to swallow and barely able to see whilst remaining fully alert and aware so when I say suffering, I really mean it. My gran died from MND some years before and it seemed so cruel that Aunt Sue should be diagnosed also.

Sue was a nurse and had devoted her life to caring for others

I took this photograph yesterday evening so this would have been Aunt Sue’s last sunset. I truly wish she’d been there with me to enjoy a Cornish sunset one last time..

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110 Responses

  1. greenmike

    Gracias por seguirme….greenmike

    March 8, 2013 at 11:23 am

  2. A so warm attribute to your ant Sue.
    Keeps the memories very close to your heart.Sure she loves your sunset as much as you.

    March 6, 2013 at 9:36 pm

  3. A memorable and magnificent sunset at the hour of your loss Adrian. It must have brought solace to your heart. My grandmother passed away during this trip when I was home. That night we witnessed the most glorious night sky and the moon seemed to shine extra bright. It helped somehow. My deepest condolences. Hugs, Sharon

    February 16, 2013 at 10:10 am

    • Thank you very much. I really appreciate your thoughts and I’m sorry to hear about about your grandmother Sharon.

      February 16, 2013 at 12:01 pm

  4. What a lovely and touching tribute for your Aunt Sue! I am so sorry for your loss.

    Blessings ~ Wendy

    February 16, 2013 at 4:38 am

  5. Such a beautiful tribute to your aunt. My condolences.

    February 15, 2013 at 10:52 pm

  6. My thoughts for you and your family, Adrian…and what a beautiful sunset for your aunt…stunning, actually….

    February 13, 2013 at 1:48 am

  7. Sorry to hear your sad news. Perhaps, you will come to know this location as ‘Sue’s Spot’ – a place of remembrance

    February 12, 2013 at 5:21 pm

  8. Adrian, I am so sorry to read this. It’s a beautiful image and I am sure your Aunt is watching over you :)

    February 12, 2013 at 7:19 am

  9. What an especially beautiful sunset, Adrian. I really feel for you, as I also had a favourite aunt, and was devastated when she died. Your photo is a fitting tribute to her, and I’m sure you’ll often look at it and remember the good times you had together.

    February 11, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    • Thank you so much for your thoughts Sylvia. I really appreciate that.

      February 11, 2013 at 3:59 pm

  10. We will all have a last sunset. My experience of the dying is that they are rarely able to see them. To be able to see one’s last sunset would be a good death. Your sunset is a good one, and such a sunset would be a good way to go out.

    February 11, 2013 at 4:21 am

  11. Adrian, what a beautiful gesture of caring. Who would not be moved by such a gorgeous sunset. Stunning.
    My sincere condolences. xx

    February 11, 2013 at 2:34 am

  12. Thinking of you Adrian .

    February 10, 2013 at 8:30 pm

  13. OMW Aunt Sue would have loved that amazing sunset.. Such an awe inspiring photograph.. Hugs and warmth!!

    February 10, 2013 at 7:33 pm

  14. Sorry for your loss, I think it is a very special and great picture dedicated by you.

    February 10, 2013 at 6:42 pm

  15. My condolences. I don’t know if you’ve seen the move What Dreams May Come, but a couple dies and their heaven is built from their favorite painting that was hanging in their house. Maybe your aunt is walking without time in a scene like this photograph, or maybe you can just imagine her there.

    February 10, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    • Thank you very much James. I haven’t seen the movie but it sounds like a really nice idea.

      February 10, 2013 at 7:26 pm

  16. Cynthia

    So sorry for your loss. What an amazing photo to take for your aunt, and a wonderful gift to share with us all.

    February 10, 2013 at 5:27 pm

  17. So sorry for your loss. You’ve made a beautiful photo in honor of her. Take care!

    February 10, 2013 at 5:22 pm

  18. Sorry for your loss, Adrian.

    February 10, 2013 at 4:49 pm

  19. So sorry for your loss. That is a very sad parting from this world. Nice to dedicate one last sunset in her memory.

    February 10, 2013 at 2:58 pm

  20. No pain, no stress. A beautiful image and tribute to your aunt Sue. May your beautiful memories of her dwell in that sunset.

    February 10, 2013 at 2:12 pm

  21. I’m so sorry for your loss, Adrian! But from what you write, she is probably in peace now, and always in your loving heart, sharing your beautiful sunsets with you.
    Take care my friend, and be happy she was there with you.

    February 10, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    • Thank you for your very kind thoughts Marie. I really appreciate them.

      February 10, 2013 at 12:57 pm

  22. stebaxter

    Sorry for your loss. A lovely tribute

    February 10, 2013 at 10:00 am

  23. Beautiful photo and a wonderful tribute to your aunt. My sincere sympathy for your loss.

    February 10, 2013 at 8:29 am

  24. I’m so sorry for your loss. The photo is magnificent, I’m sure your aunt would have loved it.

    February 10, 2013 at 7:46 am

  25. What a beautiful way to remember a beloved person, with these kind words and yet another outstanding photo of yours.
    I’m sorry about your loss, good for her, not be suffering anymore..
    Best regards
    Dina

    February 10, 2013 at 7:32 am

  26. Dear Chillbrook, A lovely tribute and a beautiful sunset. I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Your Aunt sounds a remarkably courageous woman. Knowing how wonderful you are, I’ve no doubt that she equally cherished you.

    My husband and I are making some transitions this year so my presence here will be less consistent than last. But please know that you are often on my mind and I will pop in and catch up with you. Love, Viv

    February 10, 2013 at 7:30 am

    • Thank you so much for your very kind words Viv. On several occassions in the last few weeks I thought I’d email you to say I was thinking of you but I didn’t want to intrude. I will look forward to those moments when you are able to catch up and likewise, you will be in my thoughts often. Take care Viv. :-) x

      February 10, 2013 at 11:48 am

      • My dear friend, you are never an intrusion, I am always so delighted to hear from you. Please write me any time and if I don’t reply right away, be assured that I will at my earliest opportunity. Ever fondly, Viv

        February 11, 2013 at 5:53 am

      • Thank you Viv. That’s nice to know. :-)

        February 11, 2013 at 7:26 am

  27. So sorry for your loss! Such a touching tribute and wonderful picture!

    February 10, 2013 at 5:37 am

  28. I’m so sorry for your loss. The photo is beautiful. What a wonderful tribute for your aunt.

    February 10, 2013 at 5:22 am

  29. I am so very sorry for your loss. I believe your Aunt was there watching the sunset with you. A beautiful tribute.

    February 10, 2013 at 3:06 am

  30. My heart goes out to you dear Chilli… I hope this sunset comforts you and helps bring all the good memories that seem to eventually ease the pain.

    February 10, 2013 at 2:46 am

  31. Beautiful photo and a truly heartfelt post! I am so sorry for your loss.

    February 10, 2013 at 1:30 am

  32. Condolences.

    February 10, 2013 at 1:25 am

  33. Sue’s Sunset…. is probably one of the most beautiful and serene sunsets I’ve ever seen! I’m so sorry for your loss….

    February 10, 2013 at 12:34 am

  34. Sorry to hear of your loss… great photo as usual!

    February 9, 2013 at 10:44 pm

  35. Adrian, a sad post but a wonderful image you have to remember your Aunt.

    February 9, 2013 at 10:33 pm

  36. Awesome photo.
    This is great photowork!

    February 9, 2013 at 10:31 pm

  37. I’m so sorry for your loss. This is a fitting tribute and image.

    February 9, 2013 at 9:52 pm

  38. Shutterbug Sage

    I am so terribly sorry for your loss. A dear friend of mine, a 40-something wife and mother of twins, has been diagnosed with ALS so this story really hits home.

    February 9, 2013 at 9:22 pm

    • Thank you Kristin. Yes, I remember you talking about your friend before. I think you did fundraising run didn’t you? So tragic for someone so young and with a young family. :-(

      February 9, 2013 at 10:55 pm

  39. My condolences with the lost of your aunt.Great photo and nice place of her memory

    February 9, 2013 at 8:40 pm

  40. A touching tribute – such a beautiful sunset. Sorry to hear of your loss.

    February 9, 2013 at 8:28 pm

  41. So sorry to hear your sad news. Your beautiful picture is like a little piece of heaven.

    February 9, 2013 at 8:26 pm

  42. Really sorry about your aunt, Adrian.

    You’ve expressed your love for photography in a really meaningful way. I did this myself when my father died. It works. Great image.

    February 9, 2013 at 8:17 pm

  43. A really beautiful tribute… My deepest condolences.

    February 9, 2013 at 8:09 pm

  44. I’m so sorry for your loss of a dear aunt. I would like to think she was with you then, and still is, somehow, The beauty of your sunset photo – I would like to think so.

    February 9, 2013 at 8:05 pm

  45. I am so sorry to here of your loss, and I am sure your aunt would have been with you in spirit if not body when you took this lovely sunset.

    February 9, 2013 at 7:53 pm

  46. I’m really sorry hope you’re okay, the picture is breathtaking ! :)

    February 9, 2013 at 7:49 pm

    • Thank you Patricia. It’s been a bit of a tearful day but I’m OK. I’ll be spending the day with my Mum tomorrow. Losing her Mum and now her sister to this horrible disease has been very hard on her especially.

      February 9, 2013 at 8:00 pm

      • I can’t imagine what she must be going through but at least you have each other. If there’s anything I can do or if you want to talk, let me know :)

        February 9, 2013 at 8:17 pm

      • Thank you Patricia, that’s very kind. I’ll let you know.

        February 9, 2013 at 8:31 pm

  47. That is so poignant Adrian .
    In a way though, I think it is so lovely to have such an uplifting last ‘ image memory’ that you took unknowingly to bring to mind your favourite Aunt anytime you need or want it .
    And truly I believe that she can see all the sunsets she ever wanted to see now :-) . I would like that idea :-)

    February 9, 2013 at 7:32 pm

  48. Sorry for your loss. But what a beautiful way to remember your Aunt.

    February 9, 2013 at 7:31 pm

  49. gorgeous photo … my sympathy for your loss.

    February 9, 2013 at 7:29 pm

  50. I’m really sorry for the loss of a loved one mate. Though, from your description of what she went through , I’m glad Aunt Sue is no longer suffering , and she will probably always be there to enjoy the Cornish sunsets with you…..

    February 9, 2013 at 7:16 pm

    • Thanks Scottie. I too am glad Sue’s suffering is finally at an end. She dealt with this horrendous illness with great stoicism.

      February 9, 2013 at 7:49 pm

  51. Amazing composition.

    February 9, 2013 at 7:09 pm

  52. Mesmerizing picture and a beautiful eulogy to a beloved relative. You are so gifted, all your pictures leave my mouth hanging open; some make me cry for the beauty that nature clothes herself in. I love that you can capture these images that most of us in our insane business miss. Blessings on your in your time of grief and sadness.

    February 9, 2013 at 7:09 pm

  53. So sorry for your loss. It’s a remarkable sunset.
    ~Christy

    February 9, 2013 at 7:04 pm

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